Time and their future

It seems to me that everyone is after your time.. That is the ulimate goal for someone to control you through your time that you have to give someone else. They seem to utilize it so that they don't have to do much of anything or as less as possible for themselves. You find it at work, your boss wants to keep you working as steady as possible to get their moneys worth out of you. I notice this most in the childsupport system and court system. Lawyers working diligently to get more for the other party so that they can get more money from someone else, in the childsupport system the Father. Drain this person until there is nothing left. Can someone tell me how this helps the kids? If you use up a natural resourse up until it's all gone you can get no more of it, it's gone! This is what I notice happening in my life & the lifes of countless fathers around the country, probably the world. How does this help our future? If fathers give up because of sheer oppression, abolishment of rights, frustration and lack of motivation, the children of the future won't have a future. These kids won't have higher education, the ability for a down payment on a house with the help of there parents, a new car, a rainy day nest egg to start off a new life with! All of these things are obtainable without the help of aid from the state/government, all with the help of parents working together not as enemies looking to get paid and destroy one another so that one can live better than the other. So the children will be the benifactors of what each parent has to provide for them and there future!